What we feel when we see a woman
enters holding her husband hand with smiling face. Just one word comes to our
mind what a sweet couple. But are we sure the couple is sweet or that woman
gathers her strength to maintain the dignity and image of her husband.
If we look at our ancestors
predictions, review books, and discuss with even most of the highly educated
class about a female how she need to be. Most of the answers are known and
familiar for all of us like CALM, SWEET, OBEYING, CULTURED, RESPECTFULL and
DUTYFULL.
She needs to be calm that she has
to accept her as week. She is born to listen and not to share her point in the
society. Harassment is not about sexual abuse but it is the act of tear apart
your soul when you have good ideas but not allowed to speak, because you should
not forget that the priority is to raise the level of your husband not you.
Quran has given immense right to
women. In Hinduism, durga puja is also the example. Christian portrays their
women are most modern, but dear girls reality is same everywhere, just build
the image of women in books and in religion and not on ground. The policy is to
make them fool so that they will not raise their calibre or voice to demand
their rights. If by chance a woman shouts then society jump on her like what crime
she had done. And, the routine would be continued until unless her soul will
accept yes i am a girl and this need not to be done again.
It is shocking fact that generally a
man wants a female to marry but it’s hard to accept for him when her wife gives
birth to a girl child. The acceptations are always about a male child and if
wife fails to full fill the acceptations then family and society blame her.
The question is why female always
surrender. Why it is not accepted when girl says that IT IS NOT OKAY.
I am not saying that it happens
most of the time with everyone, but it happens............
